Drowning Nor Waving

I posted that In the Box and immediately after that you changed what name you use here; I was worried you'd been offended by that post and changed your username to make it more clear who you were (which in turn was one of the things that led to my Because I am a Terrible Person post, although mostly that was because of someone whose account gives no hint as to their real name or age asked me if we'd gone to UW together, with some hints that if so, they had terrible memories of me. As it turned out, no, but how could I tell?)