I wonder if there's a degree of personalization here. If this person is shy, then I can draw them out and I Have Done A Good Thing, and I Am Special because the shy kid trusts me. Whereas if they're introverted, I have been lured into an effort trap and a rigged game and this was clearly done to entrap ME! and I will now be angry.
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Date: 2008-02-01 04:14 pm (UTC)I wonder if there's a degree of personalization here. If this person is shy, then I can draw them out and I Have Done A Good Thing, and I Am Special because the shy kid trusts me. Whereas if they're introverted, I have been lured into an effort trap and a rigged game and this was clearly done to entrap ME! and I will now be angry.