For what it's worth to science, I married a man who I had only known a short while, who had many similar interests and made me laugh (you've seen my weird sense of humor in action, so you understand why this was important to me), and who really had no espoused goals in life (at the time, though I've managed to convince him they're necessary), and we have been married now for 21 years.
Sometimes he annoys me mightily, but the similar interests mean that as we've matured, so has the relationship. Seeing what some others have gone through, I generally count myself as lucky.
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Date: 2007-12-07 01:53 pm (UTC)Sometimes he annoys me mightily, but the similar interests mean that as we've matured, so has the relationship. Seeing what some others have gone through, I generally count myself as lucky.