Given. It's not like you should have to wait on a specific incident to motivate people. If it's a problem, it's a problem and you shouldn't have to put up with it.
I have a small problem people characterizing this specific incident as the straw that broke the camel's back without knowing what actually went on. If it's part of the regular give and take of their relationship I don't think it's a part of this discussion.
I do have a slightly bigger problem in that I don't want to have the boundries of my relationships at these sorts of events defined by the minority offenders or just as bad, the random bodies nearby. I'm all for suggestion of providing education services and training people how to deal with those people who can't judge when they're crossing the line. If it comes to wearing colour coded t-shirts or some other identifying code as some have suggested my days at these events are over.
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Re: outside looking in
Date: 2006-09-03 02:40 am (UTC)Given. It's not like you should have to wait on a specific incident to motivate people. If it's a problem, it's a problem and you shouldn't have to put up with it.
I have a small problem people characterizing this specific incident as the straw that broke the camel's back without knowing what actually went on. If it's part of the regular give and take of their relationship I don't think it's a part of this discussion.
I do have a slightly bigger problem in that I don't want to have the boundries of my relationships at these sorts of events defined by the minority offenders or just as bad, the random bodies nearby. I'm all for suggestion of providing education services and training people how to deal with those people who can't judge when they're crossing the line. If it comes to wearing colour coded t-shirts or some other identifying code as some have suggested my days at these events are over.